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A Dream Cruise Love Story
Reported
by Erik Smith
Web produced by Christiana
Ciolac
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Erik Smith talks with Denny and Patty in front of their
'71 Chevy SS.
Video
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To
borrow a phrase, there are a million stories in the Woodward
Dream Cruise and this is just one of them, a love story that
begins with an awkward dance in the 8th grade, endured half
a lifetime of separation, and, finally, culminated in a storybook
reunion over 40 years later.
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Patty and Denny dancing in junior high school.
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This
is the story of a little girl named Patty O'Conner and a red-haired
boy named Denny Flinn, who grew up together in a Royal Oak
neighborhood, fell in love when they danced the night away
in junior high.
"I
was too shy to ask her, and by the time I did ask her, she
already had a date, so I went to the dance without a date
and danced every dance with her and her date got mad and left
so I got to take her home."
Patty
and Denny dated all through high school but in 1961 Denny
joined the Navy. They thought about getting married, decided
to wait, but then, as always, time and distance took their
toll on the two young lives.
"I
got out in October of 1962, the day of the Cuban missile crisis,
and I came back and I stayed in California about six months.
I came back and asked somebody about Patty and they said,
'Oh, she's engaged.' I thought, 'Oh, darn it.' We both got
on with our lives.
Patty
eventually married someone else and so did Denny, who moved
west to Colorado. Time passed. Two lives were lived without
contact. Then both their marriages ultimately floundered.
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Denny came back to the metro area for the first annual
Dream Cruise in 1996.
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While
he was out west, Denny found his dream car in Colorado Springs,
a '71 Chevy SS. So he carefully restored it and then in 1996,
he drove it back to Royal Oak to visit with his parents. That
was, of course, the year of the first annual Woodward Dream
Cruise.
Little
did Denny know, along Woodward Avenue that day, that fate
was about to get his motor really running.
"A
guy saw the Colorado tags and he said you came all the way
from Colorado for this cruise? I said, 'Well, I grew up here
and went to school here and everything. I don't know what
made me say it. While I'm here, I always check on an old girlfriend,"
Flinn said.
"He
says, 'What's your name?' I said, 'Denny Flinn.' He goes,
'Harry Sprat.' We went to school together. His wife perks
up and she says, 'I'm Mary Beth O'Connell, and I was one of
your sister's best friends. Who was this gal you're talking
about? I said, 'Well, I don't know who her married name is
but her maiden name was Patty O'Conner. She goes, 'She got
a divorce two years ago and lives out in Whitmore Lake.'"
It
didn't take long, in fact, it was just a few heart beats later
that Patty and Denny had a date for dinner. The childhood
sweethearts would meet again in the glow of a warm August
sunset at the lake.
"When
we were eating dinner, I said, 'Patty, I've got something
to show you, and I pulled out my wallet. I had laminated her
high school picture, and I carried it in my wallet all those
years.'"
Had
you guys talked about marriage at that point?
"Oh,
yeah," Patty said.
"I
just think I knew that night at the lake. The sun was setting
behind her and I had the harpoon right through me and I got
back here and I said to her that asked her in 1961 to marry
me. Have you made up your mind yet?"
After
the wedding vows were finally exchanged, you know they drove
off in the red Chevy and, yes, the '71 SS will be in the Woodward
Cruise this year, next year, and the year after, because this
is, after all, a fairy tale.
The
tale of the Snow White of St. Mary's School and her prince
charming, who arrived one day in that shiny Chevrolet. You
just have to believe they'll live happily ever after.
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