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A
Local Modern-Day Fairy Tale
Reported by Erik
Smith
Web produced by Rachel
L. Miller
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Patty O'Connor and Denny Flynn
first began their romance in the eighth grade.
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A
romance that began in an awkward dance in the eighth grade
endured half a lifetime of separation and finally culminated
in a story book reunion over 40 years later.
It
is the story of a girl named Patty O'Connor and a red-haired
boy named Denny Flynn who grew up together in a Royal Oak
neighborhood, fell in love when they danced the night away
in junior high.
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Patty and Denny dancing in junior
high.
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"It
was the eighth-grade graduation dance, I was too shy to ask
her, and by the time I did ask her, she already had a date,"
Denny says. "So I went to the dance without a date, and danced
every dance with her and her date got mad and left, so I got
to take her home."
Patty
and Denny dated all through high school, but in 1961, Denny
joined the U.S. Navy. They thought about getting married,
but decided to wait. As always, time and distance took their
toll on the two young lives.
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Denny in his U.S. Navy uniform.
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"I
got out in October of 1962, the day of the Cuban missile crisis,
and I came back," Denny says. "I stayed in California about
six months, and I came back, and I asked somebody about Patty,
and they said, 'Oh, she's engaged.'
"I
thought, oh, darn. We both got on with our lives."
Patty
married someone else and so did Denny, who moved west to Colorado.
Time passed, two lives were lived without contact, and both
their marriages ultimately floundered.
While
he was out west, Denny found his dream car in Colorado springs,
a 1971 Chevy, so he carefully restored it and in 1996, he
drove it back to Royal Oak to visit with his parents. That
was the year of the first Woodward Dream Cruise.
Little
did Denny know along Woodward Avenue that day that fate was
about to get his motor really running.
"A guy saw the Colorado tags and said, 'You came all the way
from Colorado for this cruise?'
"I
said, 'Well, I grew up here and went to school here and everything.'
And I don't know what made me say it. I says, 'And while I'm
here, I want to check on an old girlfriend.'
"He
said, 'What's your name?' I said, 'Denny Flynn.'"
Denny
found out they went to school together.
"His wife perks up," Denny says. "'I'm Mary Beth Connell.
I was one of your sister's best friends.'"
The
woman wanted to know which girl Denny was talking about.
"I said, 'Well, I don't know what her married name is. Her
maiden name was Patty O'Connor.'
"She
said, 'Oh, she got a divorce two years ago and lives in Whitmore
Lake.'"
It
didn't take long. It was just a few heartbeats later that
Patty and Denny had a date for dinner. The childhood sweethearts
would meet again in the glow of a August sunset.
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Patty's photo had its place in
Denny's wallet through the years.
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"We
were eating dinner. I said, 'Patty, I've got something to
show you,'" Denny says. "I pulled out my wallet. I had laminated
her high school picture. I carried it in my wallet all those
years."
Patty
says that by that point, marriage was "sort of like a forgone
conclusion" between the two.
"I
think I knew that night at the lake," Denny says. "The sun
was setting behind her. I had the harpoon right through me.
And I got back here and I said, 'Now, I asked you in 1961
to marry me. Have you made up your mind yet?'"
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Denny was reunited with Patty through
this car and the Woodward Dream Cruise.
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After
the wedding vows were finally exchanged, they drove off in
the red 1971 Chevy. And, yes, the classic car will be in the
Woodward Dream Cruise this year, next year, the year after,
because this is, after all, a fairy tale.
The
tale of the Snow White of St. Mary's School and her Prince
Charming who arrived one day in that shiny Chevrolet. And
you just have to believe they'll live happily ever after.
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